We'll Talk About It All Tonight - HB Mix

[pauli]

Any chance the sucking sound on your headphones are your headphone drivers themselves trying to keep up with the beat of the kick? As you said previously, in some parts its a very busy kick beat.

That is very likely a big part of the issue, but my (admittedly small) consumer grade subwoofer is also having the issue. That says to me that you should try a few more monitoring devices to refine your EQ and compression settings to make sure it's translating. My mix for this one translates like hell... still trying to work that out myself. The friggin' drums on this song are a pig to mix