If You Say - my mix

[stoman]

As for balancing, try this:

1. Dial in the basic volume levels and pan positions
2. Switch to mono!
3. Adjust the frequencies by ear (i.e. get rid of disturbing frequencies).
4. When everything sounds good, switch back to stereo and see if anything needs to be tweaked.

BTW, the most important rule when using an EQ is NOT to use it unless you have to.

Regards,
Steffen